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You may be thinking—this is zip news. You have to get them to open up. I gained weight, lost all of my friends, and was drained of my life energy just trying to accommodate her. What I personally appreciate no kissing in public and no holding hands like to announce to the world being a la. They care alot about fashion, style, appearance, hygiene. There are a few good Korean American girls out there; but you really will be TRULY SURPRISED if you find one who is not full of massive insecurities.
Great question but I can only speak from a Korean-American KoAm perspective. However, my answers pretty much correlate to the native Korean perspective to a certain degree. Korean Boys are Loyal Once you grab our hearts, we are loyal to a fault. We like girlfriends who are concerned about our well-being. I came to check on you. Let me get that for ya! Why are you such a slob? By the way, why are your socks and shirts lying all over the floor?? Stupid or not, we value our relationship and seek to make it stronger. Let me make you dinner. Korean Boy: Uh, is it going to be fried rice or ramen noodles again? Can I cook this time, or can we at least eat out? Korean Boys are Obedient Whether you agree or not, Korean boys listen to the advice of their girlfriends. Who am I gonna impress?? Besides, you look so handsome when you wear the right clothes. However, we like to keep physical affection in private. KoAm boys tend to be a little more loose. It surprised her, but she liked the new sensation. Not all Korean boys do that, but fair warning. We will still be loyal and obedient. HOW TO MEET A KOREAN GIRL: -I am Chinese Canadian, so dating in Korea is a little bit more difficult for me than for white people. Like other Asian women, Korean girls think that every guy in America looks like Chris Evans and has alot of money. So if you are white, then definitely you have the most advantage. Because its a small country. Koreans have a culture where they support each other, very family oriented etc which means that a number of girls strictly only date with Korean guys. This is not a majority of girls though, as a sizeable amount are open to dating with foreigners. The culture here emphasizes blind dating. Otherwise you will have to use online meetup websites, or language exchange sites, or applications like HelloTalk or MEEF to get to know a girl. This is more difficult to get to know them because Korean girls are super flaky and a lot of them don't trust meeting guys online. Out of the language sites and apps I used, only about 30-40% responded to me, and out of that response rate, maybe a third was willing to meet up while the other girls were Kakao chats only. Absolutely if you want to contact a girl, be sure to download the KakaoTalk application and sign up, since every Korean girl uses that app to communicate. If you are white especially, just go to any club, be sure to have a wingman, and try talking up some girls and knowing a bit of Korean doesn't hurt either. You should always be the one to talk though, Korean girls aren't known for being loud or very talkative. Most Korean girls will not go to a guys place the first time you meet them. They want to take time to get to know you first before they can come over. Depends on the time and place, but it may work out, especially if you are white. Thus for playboys who have success in America or Europe, in Korea and other parts of Asia its not too big of a leap. For introverted guys like me, its much more difficult and takes more time. But thats the way things are in life. HOW TO DATE A KOREAN GIRL: -A relationship with a Korean girl is a give a lot - get a lot type of relationship. I'd say like 50-60 texts a day especially if the girl is young. What you get in return is a girl who really does care about you and very sweet and loving, in my opinion. They do little things for you like help you put on your coat, buy gifts for you, do cute things with you etc they can be very sweet if you put in the time for them. One side doesn't pay for everything. Pretty much very month has some of kind of couple day like Rose day or Peppero day a Pocky-like snack so be aware of these days. Koreans love to show off how much they care for each other. This is normal in Korea, where relationships tend to be very exclusive, and time for meeting other people are restricted if you are in a relationship. This is also why Korea has a very high proportion of couples that you see in public compared to other countries. Make sure if you invite a Korean girl over to your place, everything is super clean and tidy. That's what they expect. So when you set up a date, be sure to decide on the places to go, schedule, etc they will be expecting you to. They are very feminine and so they prefer guys to take the initiative. WHY A KOREAN GIRL OVER OTHER ASIAN GIRLS: -Korean girls are known as amongst the most beautiful women in the world, at least superficially, and they are probably the most self-conscious insecure women in Asia. Almost every girl wears makeup all the time, and dresses up like its clubbing attire all the time. Short skirts, high heels, transparent stockings yes even in winter are pretty normal wear for Korean women. You will probably find them the most feminine out of all Asian women. They all like to have pale skin, red lips and perfect straight white teeth unlike Japanese girls. A lot of people try to put down Korean girls thinking they have so called 'fake' beauty but don't listen to them, just because they put on makeup all the time or care about their appearance a lot doesn't mean they were ugly before. Its just a part of their manners and culture. This is why you will see more Korean girls with bigger eyes than Korean guys. If you have a problem with girls wearing a lot of makeup or having surgery on her face, then Korean girls are probably not for you You should probably try Chinese girls instead. I can't compare with other Asian girls much, but definitely they put alot of effort into the relationship. But its always a plus if you can! They don't brag about how beautiful they are, they dont talk about how great their country is all the time and they dont act entitled in any way. You have to get them to open up. DOWNSIDES -Korean girls can be very very superficial and shallow sometimes. They care alot about fashion, style, appearance, hygiene. They don't like facial hair. So go for a clean cut appearance, no glasses, blazer, collar shirt, khakis etc are all good. No baggy stuff, tattoos, messy hair, beards, bling etc they hate that. You have to put a lot of time into them, and spend a lot of time with them. This is why you always see couples everywhere in Korea. They are very dependent on guys. So you can't be ignoring them or spending time with other people as often. Korean girls can get pretty crazy if they find you with another girl talking or texting. Be wary of these things. So just be aware there's a sizeable portion that you just can't get as a foreigner. Which makes them pretty much Korean men material only. You can try but... All in all, Korean women IMO are the hottest girls in Asia, surgery or not. Their mind is in between Chinese women and Japanese women, which means they aren't totally blunt but not totally hiding their emotions either. If you like a girl who cares about her appearance, and are willing to put in the time and effort you will be rewarded, so check out South Korea if you have the chance. Hope this post helps you guys.
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